Our brokenness is not proof that God could not or would not love us, but proof that what we need is the God who both created us and loves us.
- Erwin McManus
The role of pastor is demanding. Not only we them, but for their family as well. Consider these statistics from pastoralcareinc.com:
- 72% of the pastors report working between 55 to 75 hours per week.
- 84% of pastors feel they are on call 24/7.
- 80% believe pastoral ministry has negatively affected their families. Many pastor's children do not attend church now because of what the church has done to their parents.
- 65% of pastors feel their family lives in a "glass house" and fear they are not good enough to meet expectations.
- 23% of pastors report being distant to their family.
- 78% of pastors report having their vacation and personal time interrupted with ministry duties or expectations.
- 65% of pastors feel they have not taken enough vacation time with their family over the last 5 years.
- 28% of pastors report having feelings of guilt for taking personal time off and not telling the church.
- 35% of pastors report the demands of the church denies them from spending time with their family.
- 24% of pastor's families resent the church and its effect on their family.
- 22% of pastor's spouses reports the ministry places undue expectations on their family.
- 66% of church members expect a minister and family to live at a higher moral standard than themselves.
- 53% of pastors report that the seminary did not prepare them for the ministry.
- 90% of pastors report the ministry was completely different than what they thought it would be like before they entered the ministry.